These crispy coconut battered tofu bites are really good. I mean, really really good. I caught myself a few times grabbing a handful to snack on while preparing the rest of the ingredients, which was kind of dangerous.
Because his family is a true-to-the-bone pancake family, I really wanted him to share with me the secrets to making a good pancake, thin and delicate, perfectly browned on the outside, soft on the inside. He gave me a recipe, one that he has memorized. A set of very specific instructions, the right temp, the right amount of time for frying. I followed it to a tee, and sure enough, the pancakes came out the way I had always dreamed they would.